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Hmm!!! I sighed a relief after ending the long conversation with my High School friend, a lady to be precise.

Celebrating A Friend

Happy birthday to my Personal Person, Comrade Oduntan Kayode Damilare Ayokunle, Dr. Kay.

Not everyone you're attracted to is expected you're to be in Relationship with, people cross our path for different reasons.

Define the Ship

Dear young men/women, not everyone seeking to enter your life is in for romantic relationship.

The Friends You Need

As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend. Proverbs 27:17.

The emphasis of this article will center on three different group of friends you will require as you journey through life out of which you can derive subsets but none of those three is as important as that friend you will have in "JESUS". His the best you can ever, absorb that as I proceed.

1. The Loyalists

This one's is the type of friend that will always be with you no matter what comes your way. They're always there even in the thick and tin, they're just ready to be with you irrespective of who or what you're. Naomi and Ruth is a perfect demonstration of this kind of friend " where you go, I go" your people, my people and your God my God.

With these sets of friends, you can be confident that when you're not around they will represents you as if to say you're there. They are just your friends and they don't need you to do anything for them in return.

As much as this friend demands nothing from you, it's a sin against them to be laisse-faire about productivity because you know that either you produce or not, they are always around and that's why you need the second group of friends.

2. The Opportunists

Such a wonderful group of friends, these are the "results oriented" ones. They're ready to do anything for you at any time in day so far your life is "productive ", once you have consistent records of achievement they can point to and say yeah " that's my friend's whatever ", they are ready to do the unbearable.

All they care for is that your life produces a worthwhile positive results, promotions, achievements and the likes, once you're a step behind this strata, they withdraw without notice, they are less concerned all they like in you is results.

Many of us resent this type of friendship and always put an end to our relationship with any of our friends who is showing up this kind of attitude but we all need them as stimulants to forge ahead.

This group of friends are the one that will keep you on your toes and makes the best come out of always, you will be self developed and goal oriented because there's a force from within.

They also draw you closer to God as their demands and expectations of them from you will be so enormous you have to pray your way into results.

3. The Cohorts.

Just as the meaning of the word denotes, so they're, these one's become your friends because your enemy is their enemy and as a result of having a common enemy decides to partner with you so that you can both fight the enemy with a concerted effort.

They don't care about you, your achievement or your failure , what joins you together us because you've a common enemy to fight, these group of friends in the real sense of it are actually your enemy but due to you sharing a superior enemy with them, they quickly run to you.

The good side of these ones is that you have an enemy fighting another enemy without the fear of been stabbed and can eventually be a "loyalist" or "opportunist".

Concept of Loyalty

Loyalty is showing strong feeling of support and allegiance towards a particular thing or person.

Reasons why you need rest days

Sometimes mustering up the motivation to work out is a challenge. But other times, like when we’re really determined to reach a goal or we feel like we need to make up for lost time, the opposite is true.

Right A Wrong In a Moment

It is vital that you take responsibility for your actions. It takes a big person to acknowledge a mistake but the act of taking responsibility actually makes you stronger. So don’t stay defensive, make excuses or blame others. It’s about facing the consequences. Give yourself time to accept this.

Do not Judge Others

Of the good and the evil in the world, there are many complications behind them which are hard to understand which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first.

Settling Individual Differences In Relationship

Individual differences could be perceived to be the overall behaviour and attitudes that makes a person unique
The way you react, talk, eat, dress and do your own thing is different from others
Your belief system, values, etiquettes and conducts sum up to define who you're
So how will you cope with another's person differences especially when you're in a new relationship?

Be Kind Always

Everybody you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about
Everyman you come across is having a challenge only he understands
Every woman is facing a hard time she can't afford to let her husband know so that the man will not be bothered

Becoming a Light and a Salt to Others

A light is an illumination that makes it possible to see things
Your existence should be a light to others
You should live in such way that everyone that comes across you see better

True Friends and Friends of Benefits

In a simple term, Friends are people who love one another or each other
These set of people called friends defends, fights, advocates and see to the overall well being of the other person
It has been observed over time that a true friend dedicates him/herself for the overall development of his/her friend without expecting any returns as profit/gain