Settling Individual Differences In Relationship

Individual differences could be perceived to be the overall behaviour and attitudes that makes a person unique
The way you react, talk, eat, dress and do your own thing is different from others
Your belief system, values, etiquettes and conducts sum up to define who you're
So how will you cope with another's person differences especially when you're in a new relationship?


The first thing you need to accept of a fact is that your partner is entirely different from you
So you must not try to change your partner to do things and behave in your own way
Give your partner the opportunity to be original in their dealings and doings with you
Never you try to interrupt their belief system with a magic wand
Because this differences are built over a long period of  time
Trying to change it over night will end up in a sorry sad story

The second thing is that you must accept that your own belief system is not the best
Know fully well that there are some things you do and belief in that are entirely wrong and far from reality
Be humble enough to accept corrections when your partner points out a wrong of yours
By changing positively to the corrections of your partner
You're opening doors for making your partner accept your own corrections also

Note that your partner belief system is built over a long period of time before you meet
So you must be patient enough in your approach
You must give room for deliberation and discussion when necessary
Give explanations as to why you thing your partner should switch to a new behavior
And with time both of you will come to a level that you'll be able to harmonize your individual differences and share the same belief system

You'll notice that in marriages that are of age
The husband and wife tends to react to issues the same way
When you ask the husband and wife a question separately
You'll likely get almost the same answer even when they had not meet to discuss beforehand

You and your partner get along so well
If you work towards it