Thursday 25 June 2020

Dear Ladies, Hear Me Out

Listen to me dear ladies,
In my own opinion
Not all of you would eventually marry a man older than you
Or the man with a better status than you're
Some of you will marry your age mate, class mate, course mate or work mate
Fortunes might even fall with you more than your spouse.

How do you cope with that?

It's simply through double humility

You heard me right
I'm not the first to tell you that humility is a virtue to keep your home
But in your own unique case
You need an extra humility
Let it sit well with you that irrespective of your age, creed or status
Once you agree to be joined to a man
You're directly under his authority

Don't be deceived
You're only mate (not everyone who's your mate in class is actually your age mate)
You're not equal (at least in the actual sense of been equal)
Once you noticed the set of males coming your way are your mates
Start working on yourself

It's easier to respect a man who's not your mate
But it takes double humility
To respect one's mate
Life teasers are to be answered
Puzzles of life are expected to be unravelled
Don't be caught unawares.

What other virtue(s) does a lady needs to be in Relationship with her mate? Use the comment box.

© Emmanuela D'a Muse

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