Ingredients for Healthy Relationship

The first entry point to healthy relationship is that to some extent both of you are sure of what you're bargaining for AND how do you get yourselves sure, first as an individual is by ensuring you're ready for a committed relationship and ensure you're lead by an inner conviction which comes solely from God, AND the surest way to know that conviction is positive is that PEACE follows your step. You're not just perturbed or afraid, though there might be an iota of fear of unknown, you're still confident you're in the right course.

If both of you has this personal conviction about each other then you can go ahead to spice your Relationship with this basic ingredients knowing full well both of you are passionately committed to each in making the relationship work.

Be open-minded

To be open minded is to be honest every time. You really don't have any justified reason to tell a lie or get overly suspicious in a relationship. Although during early years of the relationship, there are some things you won't feel comfortable letting your partner know cos you're not sure of how he/she will react to such, that's fine and understable but you must ensure such details doesn't affect the other partner in a way that will result in him/her doubt your honesty. 

Control your Anger  

It's most unlikely that you both won't get overboard with each other, as a matter of fact, hiccups in Relationship brings out the originality in partners and help them to discover the true personality of each other. So it is normal to be angry at one thing or the other but you must control your Anger and ensure you don't over react, I mean the punishment (if at there would be any) shouldn't be more than the crime. Anger is a bitter and toxic attitude that's capable of destroying the most healthy relationship, so you both should watch out.

Finance

Though I wrote about this in the previous post but a follower wanted me to say something more and of course it's no doubt a core topic of discussion in Relationship. With the spontaneous economy we found ourselves this present days, ladies must be ready to contribute their own quota to sustain the relationship on the long run, though I won't support guys looking upto to the feminine gender to fulfill financial obligations, it's most expedient that both parties must understand the financial prowess of each other and should not withhold from each other or boss other person around because he/she has an edge financially.

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