Friday, 14 June 2019

What Every Women Wanted I

                           Attention

Truth been told, women are seemingly fragile even though some of them always argued against this known fact but which ever the case be, women really craves for attention especially from the person they love.
It is not an overstatement that women loves readily more than men and in so doing demands a great attention from this persons they love so has to have a feeling of been appreciated.
Even from childhood, it has been observed that girls get more attention than their boys sibling, I could remember the only thing my mum probably gives me preference on more than my sister's is food, any other aside from that is definitely them getting the priority not of bias but the fact is obvious that they deserved it.
As growth come by, the need for this attention grows sporadically that ladies can't deny it themselves they really enjoyed it when they have such companion who can give them almost all percent of attention, it doesn't necessarily mean they are selfish but they just wanted someone who can hear them passionately.
It is key that relationships must be rooted on right communication pattern so that each partner can express his/her feelings effectively, I have the conviction that if men really knows how much females crave for attention, they will know that the slang "ladies love money" can't have a place. Don't you ask yourself questions, when there are reported cases of of women who have external affairs because the husband only provides money alone and the wife will take the same money provided  by the inattentive husband to a man who gives attention. That is to tell you that attention surpasses money when it comes to women affairs, there are many instances where a woman will stay put to marry a man who is not seemingly rich but who gives attention at the preference of a wealthy man but who is a workaholic with no time for her.
Men listen and listen well, this attention cuts across all spheres ranging from listening to those chit-chats, commending her dress, knowing how she's feeling without been told, physically been present to do things together and a whole lots of them. The social media has created more barriers in the attention men give to their partners this days in that, once he drops a good morning message via whatsapp in the morning and a few minutes call during the day and a long hours of chats in the night, he will claim to be given attention but away from that, you can do something more better.
More than giving her gifts, spending money on her guys, give your lady attention, a measure of love is evaluated on how much of your time you dedicated to be with someone you claimed you love, it doesn't not mean you have to be physically present all the time but make yourself available enough that when she needs you, you're always available.

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