Men love ladies who dress to kill
Any form of dressing that makes you attract an opposite sex is simply a dress to kill in this discussion.
Sincerely some ladies
are decent in all but not in dressing, this group of ladies are not wayward in any manner but due to a lie they come by "men love it when ladies dress to kill" they find themselves dressing in a manner to attract and not covering nakedness.
This particular lie in my opinion can be looked at in two broad perspectives;
1. Self perception
Some ladies are of the opinion that the other ladies whose dressing is sophisticated has a better chance of men admiring them which increases their chances with men and of course this notion is correct to an extent. In same vein, some ladies just find themselves dressing carelessly right from their childhood and so when they are growing up, the concept is not wrong in their view and they just continue to do their thing not necessarily to attract another gender but on the long run, the unexpected will eventually happen.
2. Latest fashion
This may account for over 85% reasons why our ladies turned to killers without weapons, all in the name of fashion, trend and latest vibe, guys can't move freely anywhere without a sore in their eyes, go to lecture rooms, they are there; go to markets, they are there; go to meetings, they are there; go to church , you will find them there, the mosques is actually better off anyways. The home videos of this dispensation is not encouraging, the fact that this manner of dressing is been displayed in our movies are not helping matters and this so called celebrities are doing more harm than good in encouraging our ladies to dress as they dress.
Whatever the case might be, as a guy, I have discovered that men only likes this manner of dressing they don't necessarily love it, guys only get attracted to this lady by compulsion which leads to infatuation and this is what ladies assume to be love.
In the concluding part of series two, I said something about rape, do you know that rape also happens in relationship and marriage and it could be orchestrated by both genders (the chances of ladies initiating rape in marriage is higher in marriage while in dating relationship could only account for 1%), a guy who actually loves in you in the real sense of love will never hurt your feelings in his right senses so it can be rightly said that he only has infatuation for you because could it have been love, he wouldn't defile you to feel good.
Men, like real men loves ladies with modest character; respect; a lady who can help him with his vision; who can be by his side; who can contribute meaningfully in a discussion; who has potentials to be a good mother; relate well with his family and friends; encourage him when he's down and stuffs like that and not a bimbo.
I do not mean to say ladies that dresses in an indecent manner doesn't end up in a good relationship or better marriage but the emphasy here is that it's not the dressing that is all about them, some of this lady have amazing personality that got men stuck to them and that's why you have to be yourself, do things because you have a reason of yourself for doing it and not because someone else is doing it or you think it's normal.
The good thing that your decent dressing will do for you is that it will help you narrow down your proposals to only the serious ones because this type of men see something better in you before asking you out and not because your cleavages and thighs invited them. So ladies, please cover what is supposed to be covered, treasures of high value like gold and pearls are covered down the earth crust and it takes a factory with machines to have them compared with ordinary soil which is exposed and every Tom, Dick and Harry can trudge upon, your worth can not be compared with gold or pearls because you're far more worth than them. Dress like a queen who you're and not as slut.
The best impression your indecent dressing can have on men is "likeness" and never love, is just like when they say a phrase of " it's love at first " I need to tell you it is actually "likeness at first sight" so ladies step up from the lie of "men love ladies who dress to kill".
Watch out for series IV.
Your comments and responses is highly appreciated.
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