Lies ladies belief about men II

       
                 Men are Sex Maniac.

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Sincerely I wish I could find another word which carry the same meaning with what I intended to pass across without using the word "sex" but I couldn't find any so let's just call a spade what it is; spade.
If you read the conclusion of the series one of this topic,
you should by now be clear with the fact that I am not trying to vindicate men or pointing accusing finger to ladies but only trying to fill the gaps and level the valleys between both genders, so I advise you not to read with bias as a female and not with growing wings as a male but to read with a notion to be better off.
Having clear the air on the topic, let's get to the gist of the moment "men are sex maniac or freak". To start with, what's your definition of sex_ a way of expressing love to a partner to bring about intimacy, my dear if that's how you define it you will never be free of thinking all men wants from you is sex. Out of many better definition out there, I chose to define sex "as a sacred union of the body, spirit and soul of two individuals usually male and female who having agreed together to become one has been pronounced married in front of witnesses". If as a lady, you can make this definition stick to your mind and anytime you hear anyone mention the word sex, words like; it's sacred, union of body, spirit and soul, marriage pricks your heart you definitely are a step ahead of the fallacy " men are sex maniac ".
Ladies, I don't want to know what conditions or what premise is at stake, sex is only meant for married couples, our culture encourages that, God's standard supports it. So if you as a lady allowed yourself to be taunted by any man with sweet deadly words like; prove to me you love, show me the extent of your love, don't worry you're the one I will marry, if you can't do it with me I will leave you and other empty words men do say just to get under your skirt, forget it you're your own.
This particular lie captivated the minds of some ladies to the extent that they believe the only way to keep their relationship is to satisfy the lust of men, some already take it as normal thing that even when a guy who is not actually having such disposition comes their way, they don't feel secured, the polluted mind starts to guess and assume what it is not happening with something like; is he cheating on me with someone else that's why he's not asking me and some other self defeating thoughts.
Dear ladies, it's high point in time that you become strict about this stuff. When your partner ask you out for sex, refuse with affirmation, not the the one you say no with your mouth and your eyes with body chemistry is saying yes. I always say this to my younger sister, if your boyfriend really loves you as he claimed, he will respect your decision of been chaste till marriage, so he rather wait till then or leave for someone else who will be patient enough. If a guy broke up with you because you refused him sex, then it shouldn't bother you because it's an indication he will eventually leave you after the action.
Okay, you wanted to question me about rapist, well to me those are the wolves in the flesh of men I told you in the first series but come to think of it, what role is the rape victim also playing in the whole action, let's be realistic with ourselves, some ladies dressing don't cover their nakedness at all and this wolves of men are those who can't keep their eyes in check when they see ladies nude, don't forget men are triggered by sight. You will do yourself good by decent dressing especially when you're around men. You see those who defile teenagers by my own point of view are not fit to live, they are murderers and should be treated as such, before now I do think they are lunatic but I discovered those who are even in that condition don't constitute such  nuisance in the society.
Stay stuned for the next series in this same topic "Lies Ladies Belief About Men".