Out of many lies ladies belief about men, in this first series I will talk about the common phrase ladies has made their every day slang " All Men are the same".
Let me enlighten you, if all men are actually the same as you belief, the only thing that made them the same is simply they share the same name "man" that been put aside, no two men are actually the same.
Well, you have met with few men who behave towards you in an almost same manner, then you conclude erroneously that all men are the same when there are over million numbers of men if not billions over the world, so to what extent is your hypothesis correct.Let's look at it circumspectly, you're just starting a new relationship, the guy asked you for sex and you never refused, on the long run you guys couldn't get along again due to a reason best known to both of you then you claim he cheated you but is that really true, if you had refused vehemently in the first instance, you wouldn't have a super story to tell when your relationship does not work out, if the circle repeated itself with different guys, on the long run you say all men are the same.
Maybe yours is men lies too much, like you have never been told any truth by men before but dear lady, are you saying you're also faithful in that relationship, like you have never told lies to those men before, wake up from your slumber, don't expect someone to treat you right when you're treating them otherwise.
I could remember some time ago when my mother was telling me some of her life story, this is how the story goes " When my mom was three month pregnant with a second child for my dad, it happened that my dad impregnated another woman whose pregnancy was at seven month when my dad told my mum. My mum was like dad should accept the woman with her pregnancy as a second wife though dad was like he should just take the child and abandon the woman but my mum was trying to be a nice woman because even her dad married two wives, my dad elder sister was a second wife to her husband, so she's trying to be on a safer side at her own detriment. Maybe she did the right thing at least it is out of love, but the tragedy is that, from that moment my dad took the lady as her second wife, it was another ball game entirely for my mum, she was neglected, deserted and abandoned".
Truly it's my dad fault for paying my mum good will with evil but do you know if my my mum had simply accepted dad's proposal of taking only the child and not with the woman, the reverse would have been the case, so if my mum dwell on the wrongs of her husband and told her daughter, be careful of men, they are this and that, her child wouldn't have belief otherwise because this epistle is coming from her mother, but I bet you she will never point out her own shortcomings of the story.
The same soap opera is what is been broadcasted to you and every lady dance to the tune of the music they never played themselves, in your house, your dad usually bully your mom but you don't know what exactly is transpiring between your parents, when a guy bullies you it's been stereotyped in your mind as been normal and you never made efforts to change the situation then you also join the wagon shouting all men are the same.
There are men and there men, the fact that you have been unlucky to meet the wrong one is not a justified reason to generalize, free your mind from negative vibe, be open towards all and sundry. There's a saying that "when you close your eyes so that a bad person will passby, you wouldn't notice when a good person walks past you".
Yes there are wolves in the flesh of men out there, but I'm sincere with you there are wonderful, amazing and excellent men also but it takes not an ordinary lady to have them, so work on yourself and prepare yourself for a good person you so desire.
Stay tuned for the second series.
This is superb😊
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