How to Accept who You're

Are you still wondering why is this and that in your life, do you still find yourself thinking you would have been better off if you're like this and that, worry no more here is how to really accept who you are, make yourself happy about your personality and make people wonder what an amazing person you're without improving to their standards.

Let me be frank with you, nobody will appreciate you if you don't appreciate yourself, no one will ever like you when all you think about yourself is hatred, human will not encourage you when you're always discouraged before starting.
Here is the big deal my dear, you're yourself motivation, inspiration and mentor, any picture you create in your mind is what is reproduced in your personality. If you're always thinking you're good at something even if you're not naturally inclined towards that particular thing your positive thought about it will motivate you to cross all hurdles and be a better person at it.
Do you ever wonder why your friend seems to be more beautiful than you're in term of aesthetic views, check out your friend well you'll discover not only does she has a beautiful look but also a beautiful heart. This might be a bitter pill to swallow but believe me, until you learn to be positive about yourself you will always have a low self esteem and if you're not careful depression might set in.
If you think you're disadvantaged at a particular thing say you have a teeth too big for your mouth to cover how do you live with it without withdrawing yourself from friends especially when there's a discussion or a need to laugh...... Firstly accept that as part of who you're and never try to hide it, the more you hide it the more obvious it becomes as it will make your friend to notice the reason you're not flowing with them and then you will end up drawing attention to yourself. On the long term when you flow with it and take it to be nothing those who will stay by you will never end up leaving you and if anyone leaves you on that reason, I guess you should do a special thanksgiving because a bad vibe just left you.
Be factual about this, where is it written that this is the normal size of a tooth, or the right shape of a nose or a perfect shape of the face or any books of record that kept the colour of face you should have or the height a person should have, does it really matter if you're fat or slim, if you're dark or light, if you have a K, bow or straight leg, if you answer NO to those then it means you're the perfect person you can be without prejudice to anyone.
I could remember one of the reason I don't have a unique hand writing until lately is because I have always change my writing per time as I meet new people but then I made up my mind just of recent that as I'm starting a new academic life, I'm gonna write as I deem fit no matter what anyone says, once it is good enough for my readers to read and understand without difficulty then I'm good to go.
A friend of mine says and I quote " Never accept Defeat for what you can Repeat ". Justified, you have a particular weakness but how much have you tried to ameliorate it, some folks out there have a brown teeth due to drugs they took probably during childhood but have you ever visited a dentist to see if your teeth can be white again, so you have a body odour and yet you find it difficult to bath twice a day forget it no matter how positive you think about yourself you will always stink. Here is the emphasy, any weakness you have that makes you to feel inferior about yourself try your best to improve on it without making excuses for it.

Inculcating  these simple habits will help in help in improving people perception about you rather than your looks and aesthetic appearance

Appear neat always:- no matter how unimportant where you're going might seems to look if you're bound to come across somebody there, always try to look good by wearing neatly ironed cloth, nice shoes, wear a nice perfume, have a neat hairdo and always avoid an oily face.

 Be overtly clean: when you're in a public place be extraordinary in ensuring you're not seating on a stained chair, not leaning against a dirty wall or holding a dirty material carelessly.

Be courteous: courtesy is a great tool to actually show you have good morals, many people believe having simple courtesy sometimes makes them inferior and cheated but its never true, when you shift on a sit for someone else to sit, you help a friend pick up a material, wait down the stairs for someone else to go ahead of you and the likes, you earn yourself a good reputation with no time.

The blind get married
The crippled get relationship
The deaf has friends
So why you think low about yourself, be positive always about every thing you are.