Thursday 28 May 2020

Hidden Fantasy


The bane of every unworking relationships today is this term "hidden fantasy".

This is the day-dreaming thoughts you've heard about relationships in your mind right before you ventured into the relationship.

Not necessarily bad, at least everyone has something we want to get out of our individual relationships but it poses a threat when your partner doesn't know about it and you're not ready to let go.

May I tell you as good as your fantasies could be, I guess the Nollywood & Hollywood is not a good source for you to fantasize about your relationship because what you see on that TV screen is only meant to entertain & cough money out of you.

Many relationships are heading towards bush today because individual partner is mostly concerned about personal uncommunicated needs. If you like something, let you partner know & if you don't, communicate it in the best way you can.

You feel much better making known to your partner your emotional needs especially when such are not obvious rather than expect your partner to know them by default, if he/she is not aware or pretend not to be aware, you are at the disadvantage if you don't communicate your HIDDEN FANTASY.

Be wise, Don't Get Too Much Attached to Yourour Fantasies.

What is your relationship hidden fantasy?

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