3. What you're saying?
Proverbs 4:23
No doubt about it, whatever you say comes from your your heart and the Bible made it point blank that whatever it is in your heart is actually represent who you are.
So if you say ladies are scammers, you'll always attract a lady that'll scam you. If you say ladies doesn't stay with a broke guy, you'll continue to be broke and no lady will stay with you. If you say you're not ready to be in love, you just want to catch cruise with ladies, you'll always come across ladies to catch cruise with ladies but when you decide to be in love, karma will catch up with you & ladies will be using to catch cruise.
Say all men are the same, you'll come across the same guy in a thousand time, say guys are cheaters, you'll end up with guys that'll be cheating on you, say guys are stingy, you'll never come across the one that'll spend on you. Say guys are scum, the scums will be the one flooding you.
If you will attract genuine love, there's a need to detoxify yourself of past relationship failures and position your mind, body & spirit to experience a better time with anyone who is coming your way. If you still dwell on your past, you'll never know when you will react in an absurd manner that will turn the new person off.
So if you're in the right frame of mind, you'll behave positively thereby attracting a more genuine love in another person. A person who is hit by a car will be rushed to the hospital by another car, if the the person refuses to take car, death might be the end result. You won't die untimely in JESUS name.
4. What you're watching?
1 Timothy 4:7
Have nothing to do with irreverent, silly myths. Rather train yourself for godliness.
Psalm 101:3a
I will not set before my eyes anything that is worthless.
Some of you have been polluted so much by demonic romantic movies that you always wanted to see those things you see on TV screen play out in your love life. I'm here to wake you up from your dreams today.
Look, there's more to love than what you see in Nollywood movies, all those nice things you see them portray about love is vague and far from reality. Ok you doubting right? On how many occasions have you seen the wife serve something else for breakfast except from bread & tea? Now tell me this is Nigeria, how many times has your dad taken such for breakfast?
Let me not continue to mention but the sad reality is that if you've based your love life on this movies, weekend shoppings, everyday lunch & all of that, you're having a wrong priority that will make you not attract the genuine love. Everything on the TV screen is meant to entertain you & cough out money from your pocket and if by chance learn few things.
You need to be realistic about everything you watch and filter it very well to see the one that'll be applicable to your situation ( of cause not everything they project are wrong) and apply with sense so that it doesn't end up destroying you.
5. Where do you meet?
Not so many of us have been conscious about the fact that location determines allocation. If you'll attract genuine love, then where you firstly meet & your place of continuos meeting is an important factor.
I really don't want to stress this much cos I believe you all understand what I'm saying but don't get to carried away, that you met someone in the church might not necessarily mean the person is genuine but such it's better than someone you met at night club.
More than the place where you first met because there are countless reasons why someone may be in a not too good location and that's quite understandable but your venue of subsequent meeting is quite important.
If you're meeting in awkward place with nothing tangible about future you're discussing together, all is about entertainment, gisting and celebration all through, forget it the love is not genuine because loving someone is tantamount to loving oneself, the person should always be concerned about your overall wellbeing, future goals & ambitions, career development first before all those frivolities.
To be continued
What do you think is the role of what we say, what we think & what we watch in attracting a genuine love?
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