Achieving Extraordinary Success

Success is personal, know the price and pay it.

There are no two ways to achieving success in life rather than "knowing what the price is and paying that same price".

Success in life depends on many variables which is individual in approach. Success is never collective and so any person who the Lord has helped to think beyond the status-quo should take it upon him/herself that it depends solely on his/her personal choice to be successful in life.
As young adults, it is easier to shift the blame of our failures on our parents, family background, society, friends and on other variables which are external but the reality still remains that each person will carry his own cross, battles of life are meant for you alone and you must fight it all alone by yourself and for yourself.
Life is in phases and men are in different sizes and their operations varies in different series of life, it's no gainsaying that nobody cares about you more than yourself.
To become the champion and extraordinary success you so  much desire, follow the under listed  practical approach as and see you walking into an overwhelming extraordinary success

Be yourself
The fact remains that for every step you take ahead in your life, career, education, relationship, job, marriage and other facets of life, there are principles, philosophies and thoughts that are already in existence before you get there. The people you will come across in this next level will always entice you with the modus operandi of how things are been done there before your arrival, your chances of excelling at those points depends on how much you can remain yourself without following multitude to do evil, the most disruptive fact of this whole existing principles are that they are the type that will destroy and mar your vision. When you get to a new location, in that place the people there already have their way of doing things and influencing you will not be a big deal, don't be someone else, be realistic about the fact "no single person really wanted you to be better for yourself, most people only help you to reward them." Look inwardly, find out from your inner man what you need to do and not do, the implication of you been or above age eighteen is that you're the driver of your own life so listen to advice but take the decision on your own.

 Be in charge
Success is in life is a product of the mentality to be successful, a poor person is firstly poor in mind before been poor in pocket. The fact that you're the one that craves for extraordinary success underlines the fact that everything has to be centered on you and you alone. It has been given to you as a man what you need for that success, the responsibility only lies in you actualising them, you're the chief executive officer/general manager of your company so all variables must be subjected to your control, you don't achieve any success in life by leaving the responsibility of decision making to others or by comparing your own life with others, if your societal expectations or any other yardstick is what you put in consideration when taking major steps of your life, you find out that you don't have a life of your own but that of the person you wish to please.

Dispose bad vibes
Bad vibes are sum total of everything that is going on in your environment that is not helpful to where you're aiming at or the vision you're pursuing. If you're planning to start a new business and all you hear from the early morning news on your radio is the report of crashed businesses, simply off the radio, there are no two ways to it. The mind produces result from what it is been fed by listening and watching, only listen to and watch what you wanted to and not what is circulating. There are so many negative vibes out there that when you hear them your mind automatically get weary and you won't have the strength to proceed to your next level of success, the most annoying part of this is that devil uses our close friends, family members and relations to pollute our mind with this bad news and we got so enticed that we'll just want to take it easy on ourselves. So if you're in a gathering and all what the discussion is about mars your own vision and purpose, simply work out from there. Feed your mind with positive thoughts and expect an extraordinary success in your journey of life.

Know when to let go
As you grow in life it simply follows that your friends change and that is growth for you. At every level of life you're, you will always have new friends that you're in the same circus at that time, so don't be so attached to anybody that you will not be able to leave them when the needs arise, am I saying you should be arrogant to your old friends? No, but accept the reality that if you don't part with some people, you will never come back to their life's as king. The ability to let go of some relationships is a great indication of achieving a landmark success in life. Come to think of it, if you're so  much attached to your primary school and secondary school mates, would you had waited for them when it's time to get to higher institution or they waiting for you all in the name of friendship, of course not. For any new level you get to in life, you practically leave some people behind and get to meet new people at your current position, yes those whom you're leaving behind will tag you as been proud, just make sure you're not and you're good to go.

Generally, be practical in your approach of life, take every damn thing you know or believe and bring it into practical demonstration, life is real, life is practical, common head knowledge won't produce you with any desirable results.
Let's meet at the top.